Chianti Means, 2023 | Source: Facebook.com/diamond.scott.9083

New York Mom, 33, and Two Little Kids Die at Niagara Falls — Details

In a tragic turn of events, a New York resident and her children died after visiting Luna Island and falling over Niagara Falls. The father of one of the children is now raising funds to bury the trio and keep their memories alive.

On October 29, 2024, the New York State Police announced on its website that it was investigating the deaths of Chianti Means and her two young children. The family had been in Niagara Falls, New York, at the time of the incident.

The day before the State Police’s post, authorities responded to a report involving an incident on or near Goat Island around 9:00 p.m. The New York State Park Police and Bureau of Criminal Investigation also arrived on the scene.

Investigators determined that Chianti, 33, a resident of Niagara Falls, New York, and her two children, Roman Rossman, 9, and Mecca Means, 5 months old, went over the safety rail on Luna Island, falling into Niagara Falls.

Both State Police and Park Police conducted search and rescue efforts, but they did not recover the trio. The New York State Park Police Unmanned Aircraft Systems, NYSPP Marine Patrol, NYSP Aviation, Underwater Recovery Unit, Niagara Falls Police Department, and Niagara Charter Schools are collaborating on the investigation.

Bierra clarified that the parent had been “fighting depression alone,” adding, “Understand this — postpartum [depression] is very real and needs a cure.” Mourning Chianti, she expressed, “My cousin had a beautiful soul.”

She recounted that the mother of two deeply loved her children and family, saying, “I never had a bad memory with her. [She was] so full of life and wisdom. She and her kids will be missed so much.” About a month before her death, Chianti’s social media posts appeared to hint at her struggles with mental health and a call for help.

On September 29, 2024, she posted on her “Diamond Scott” Facebook account, expressing, “I wish someone would love me because the man that’s suppose[d] to does not.” According to her profile, she had marked herself as married.

On October 1, Chianti shared two more unsettling posts, stating, “You have to hold on to the ones you love. Never know when you might lose them.” In a subsequent post, she wrote, “Everyone please leave me alone I’m in love with my daughter[‘s] father. I want my family back.”

She continued, “Respectfully [expletive] what I said about him before or what anyone else thinks.” Roman and Mecca appear to have different fathers; in a 2018 Facebook post, Roman was seen with his father, John Wayne Rossman.

On her Facebook page, under the name used by authorities, Chianti once shared her struggles while expressing her love for her oldest and then-only child. A 2017 image she uploaded read, “I love my son! I gave him life… he gave me a reason to live.”

The boy’s father also intended to use the funds for a memorial service on January 30, 2025, which would have marked his son’s tenth birthday. The money raised will also help cover funeral arrangements, including burial sites and headstones.

John shared that he has been visiting the island daily and plans to continue doing so until his son, with whom he shared a close bond, can rest peacefully. He and his family extended their gratitude to those who have offered prayers and kind words during this time of mourning.

If you or someone you know is considering suicide, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255), text “help” to the Crisis Text Line at 741-741, or go to suicidepreventionlifeline.org.